Friday, April 18, 2008

My Birthday!!

I am so touched by all of you that remembered my birthday, it truly was one of the best B-days I have ever had!! I was first greeted in the morning with a Happy B-day phone call from Mark ( a wonderful way to start the day!). A couple of hours later someone came to the door with the largest bouquet of long stem red roses that I have ever seen from Mark. I took a picture, but it sure did not do it justice, it was too difficult to actually get it all in the picture! If you imagine our kitchen table Mark, they took up almost the whole length! Those flowers kept me smiling all day!

Later on in the evening the Mercy mom's treated me to a night out at Bravo's! What a wonderful treat! They had presents and a wonderful cake made by Kate Gehrig with four layers of chocolate ganache, yum! And if that wasn't enough A. Wichgers babysat and Julie Swielik and Mary Schmidt provided a meal for the children so I wouldn't have to think of that! WOW! They honestly thought of every detail, we are so blessed by our Mercy family!! I am including a picture of some tulips they brought for the tables that I got to take home. A huge thank you to all of you for making my birthday one of great joy! I will post some pictures of the evening as soon as I get them from some of the ladies! :)







Saturday, April 12, 2008

Can you believe it, she's ONE!!!

I am a little behind in taking these, but today it was snowing, *yes, snowing* outside and so I decided to play with the studio lights a bit. We had a wonderful party for P and C last weekend with family. I was so grateful to have everyone there to make it feel special for them. All of the children are a gift but I have to say having a little one around during this difficult time is such an incredible gift! As A said during night prayers the other night:

"... and God thank you for our baby that makes us laugh and laugh and laugh. We love her so much!"

out of the mouths of babes...Thank you God!

Just a note, she is so proud of this tutu! She walks around holding it and loves it when people say she is cute in it! In the middle of taking her pictures with the cake she waddled over to me and gave me a big "mahh" kiss, I love that girl!









We broke out the bubbles here, unfortunately one got in front of her face!



A thank you from Mary!

O.k. now it is my turn! I have had a great week with the mail! I have always enjoyed getting snail mail, but up until the deployment pretty much all of the mail came for Mark (go figure). This week was full of presents that came in the mail in the form of gift cards and such from different people! To the Schmidts, Kolbs, Churchills, and Schmitzers, it will be used well, thank you!!!

I have a very sincere thank you to Marie Wycklendt for giving selflessly of her time and watching the children so I can could get out with the ladies. You are a dear! And to your whole family, we loved the cheeseburger casserole! It was a real hit here! Thank you again!

I received a wonderful meal from Mary Ann Hanson and besides that an incredible bunch of tulips, sooo pretty! Thank you so much for everything Mary Ann!

And last but not least, thank you to all of my wonderful friends who pitched in to take me out to the Melting Pot on Monday, I had such a wonderful time! It sure was on a day that I needed a little break from everything and seeing all of you lifted my spirits so much! I am so blessed with incredible friends and family!

A thank you from Mark!

Some of you may have seen this already, but in case you missed it, here is a thank you from Mark to all of you who have helped us out!


A Letter from Mark Gundrum

Dear Friends,


Hope all is going well back in beautiful Wisconsin. My wife has kept me informed of what a challenging winter it has been. But for a few sandstorms, the weather here in Iraq has been tolerable thus far, though it did hit 100 degrees earlier this week. I am sure I will be very envious of Wisconsin weather come summer.

I have been in Iraq for about a month and a half now. Serving our country in this capacity is one of the greatest honors an American can experience. My work is primarily focused on helping the rule of law take hold and, hopefully, one day thrive in Iraq. Because of my background in the state legislature and local government, I have also been plugged in a fair amount on Iraqi governance matters as well. Earlier this week, we convoyed into downtown Baghdad for a committee meeting of the Baghdad Provincial Council (a near-equivalent to our state legislature).

Most of my time is spent in Baghdad, though I did make a site visit to Mosul for several days to assess the extent to which the rule of law is taking hold there. We convoyed into town for some insightful meetings with local Iraqi judges, the police chief, and the jail administrator. Because al-Qaida in Iraq and insurgents are still very active in Mosul, we always had to make these visits unannounced and keep them efficient and fairly brief.

America and Iraq are at such an important crossroads for the future right now. There have been so many encouraging improvements in conditions over the past year in Iraq. The Iraqi Army and police force have begun picking up more of the security responsibilities that used to fall on Coalition shoulders alone. The national governing bodies - the Council of Representatives and Presidency Council, as well as the provincial governing bodies - like the Baghdad Provincial Council, have begun functioning like governing bodies in other more established democracies. Similarly, many Iraqi judges and other actors in the criminal justice system here are beginning to demonstrate a commitment to the rule of law. It is exciting to see decisions being made by Iraqi officials based on debate, persuasion, justice, and a commitment to doing what is right, instead of out of fear for personal or family safety - as was the case for more than three decades under Saddam Hussein's regime and even just a year ago when terrorists and insurgents controlled portions of Iraq.

But things must be kept in perspective. There are many forces within (and some outside of) this country still actively committed to undermining a free and sovereign Iraq. Mortar and rocket attacks, car bombs, IEDs, suicide bombers, snipers, etc., attacking innocent Iraqis and American troops are still a very real part of life here. Corruption is still a concern throughout much of Iraq's government to a greater extent than in most other, more established democracies. And fear, though less than perhaps at anytime in the last few decades, is still a concern for honest, upright government officials here. That's why we are at such a crossroads.

The next several months will be quite telling. This is the time when Iraqis, from the policeman on the street to the shopkeeper on the corner to the highest government official, must take full responsibility for their sovereignty and freedom and make the sacrifices necessary to make it their own and make it permanent.

While here, I have been privileged to work with some amazing American patriots. So many wear a uniform - Army, Navy, Air Force and Marines. Many are not servicemembers, but are civilian government employees and contractors who have volunteered to come to Iraq because they too want to serve their country in this capacity. Many of these servicemembers and civilians have made tremendous sacrifices to come here and do their part for our country.

America is so great and strong, however, not just because there are servicemembers willing to go to far off lands to fight for our country - but because other great Americans - the ones who are back at home, also step up to the plate and do their part by supporting servicemembers while deployed. That is something my family has been very blessed to experience first-hand over the past few months.

Thank you to all those who have helped clear our driveway during one of the worst winters ever, who have made meals for my family - so my wife could use that time to tend to the needs of our six children, who have bought groceries for our family, watched the children in times of need, and have helped in so many, many other ways.

Please remember to pray for the military spouses and children left behind when a loved one goes off to serve. It takes a significant toll on the family. Though many months of my deployment still remain, for my family that toll has been lessened substantially thanks to the great generosity of so many wonderful friends, family and neighbors. Other servicemembers may not be so fortunate. If you know someone who is deployed, please consider offering to help their family in some small way. The impact it makes for that family and the peace of mind it helps provide the servicemember serving overseas is substantial.

Once again, my family and I wish to say 'Thank You' for all the support we have received during these initial months of my deployment.

Mark Gundrum


The comments herein represent only the opinions of the author and are in no way meant to represent the views of the United States government or the military.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

signs of spring

Thought you might enjoy seeing some snow drops from our woods. We have had so many of these this year, a definite sign of spring! I also thought you might enjoy seeing a picture of what you were doing around this time last year. Remember when you saw M working so hard on his golfing and you ran out to show him how to do it better? I am so glad I captured that moment!



Tuesday, April 1, 2008

You had better watch out!!!!

After reading the letter you sent to A, he was really intrigued by the idea that you said you were afraid he might be so strong by the time you came back that you might get hurt when he hugs you. The rest of the evening he was checking out his muscles in the mirror and asking me if I thought he was strong. He kept me laughing inside all night long. Today he asked if we could take some pictures to show you how much his muscles grew (sooo boy!). You better watch out honey, he has set some serious strengthening goals!











O.K., I guess there is still a soft side to him left. He simply can't resist his sister! She is so into giving kisses lately!

Monday, March 31, 2008

Suffering

I wanted to write a little about something that I have realized since you have left. It is that while we never want to put the word "suffering" next to the words "my children", I have learned that there is a reason for it. I have at least learned to trust more and put our children into the hands of God and His great plan. I worried and fretted so much about how this deployment would affect the children, I worried they would be damaged. I could not see how anything positive could come out of this. As it turns out, yes, it has been difficult on them. On some, harder than I would have imagined and yet something else is happening at the same time. I am beginning to see leaps and bounds in their growth as persons and in their character. Each one is having their own seperate journey and way of dealing with this, but I am not sure that what is being accomplished in them could have been done without the "suffering". I hope and pray that this continues in the positive way it has been going, but I guess I just want you to know that you can be very proud of your children. When you come home I think you are going to see children who are a little more caring, a little tougher, a little more helpful and a whole lot deeper. Isn't that something that we would all wish for our children? Tonight I am grateful for the blessings that can come out of difficult situations, I am just so grateful...

I am including a picture of Laura who has been so incredible in her support to us. She is like a medicine for the family. Thank you Laura for all of the times you have come into town to watch the children and give me a break! We love you!!

Laura playing Boggle with M. Just a note that how P looks in this picture does not represent at all how she is with Laura, she absolutely could not get enough of her!!

It has been too long...

since I have said my last thank yous! That sure doesn't mean I appreciate it any less! We were out of town and then I was having some computer issues this week. And there are so many to thank! I will begin with Christine Foley helping us out with a meal when we were still mending from our sickness. She brought over a fantastic Taco Bake that all of the children raved about, definitely a recipe I would be interested in getting! Thank you Christine! After that we were treated with an incredible pot roast that has set me on a quest to find out exactly what was in that roast that made it taste and smell soooo good! That was given to us by Kristen Lindblom, a very busy lady herself who gave of her time selflessly! Thank you Kristen!

Taking a break here from the meals, we got a refrigerator!!! The Gratz's had an extra one and they were looking for a home for it! It is really helping with leftovers and yet again less stops at the store for milk! The Barnes came over and installed it which was no small feat! Backtracking a bit, our good friend Nicole B came over to help me clean. Now you know it has got to be pretty bad for me to allow someone to come in and help me clean, but I felt like I was drowing in the mess after being laid up for so many days. Thank you Nicole for making me feel so comfortable about it all, you are a true friend! The next day we were blessed by a meal from Diana Robertson, something I had never had before but really enjoyed. It was a casserole that tasted like Chicken soup! So perfect for the children, thank you Diana!

We went out of town and then came back to a meal in the cooler, a yummy tuna bake with soup on the side! It was perfect since I did not have much in the house after traveling. Thank you so much Georgia for the wonderful meal. And to finish it off I just have to say "you can never have too much pizza!" We have been blessed with two families who have ordered out pizza for us on two consecutive days, Sue Manley and Kathy Fulton!! There were many smiles from the children as the boxes came to the door each day! What a treat! I know I have said it before and I will say it again, I am supposed to be losing weight, not gaining it, but with all of this wonderful food.... well, it is difficult! I am hoping to at least start walking off some of this *ahem* extra me!

And what is a post without pictures, as I promised I am posting a few more of our trip back home. You can really see how all of the little ones have grown, being that it had been so long since we had seen all of the neices and nephews, my focus was really on them! Again, I just really had so much fun at home. I want to make sure to also thank my brothers for taking the boys for a time, they really had a good time! And I also want to thank my sister for such a great time, having our great sister talks makes the trips home so important to me!

Becky's children..










Jerry's youngest "petting" P. She was fascinated with her. The children look a little grungy since this was taken moments after waking up. We had such a good time with them at our sleepovers!




Jerry's children had a very cool camera by Vtech that M was fascinated with. Maybe another photographer in the house?






M got along so well with Jerry's oldest, they have already starting writing one another



Grandma and J at the tea party, our oldest will always be our "little girl"



I had to include a couple of Mark's little girl. I am so excited I was able to get a couple of shots of her since she is quite the mover!!







Friday, March 28, 2008

Back Home!!

We have safely returned from our very enjoyable trip to MN. It was SO GOOD to see family again and see all of the little nieces and nephews. WE started off at my brother's in Winona. Thank you so much for putting us up, we had a wonderful time Jerry and Susan! Then on to my parents for hours of talking and catching up. I had a great time getting my fill of adult conversation with my brother Andy! Thanks Andy for all of the great advice! To my mother and father thank you so much for putting up with all of the chaos and personalities, I truly was able to relax! Nothing made me happier than sharing the joy I have about the children with both of you and to see you enjoy them so much made my heart sing!

Our Easter was a cold snowy one, but enjoyable still! In MN we got about 6-8 inches of snow on Good Friday, our home in WI got a whopping 13-15 inches. We ended up having an Easter egg hunt out in the snow! I can't even begin to tell you how renewed I feel after my visit home, I came back feeling positive and like I was ready to take on the daily routine of my life, maybe it helps that everyone is healthy too!! I have so much to share with you in pictures but because it is time consuming I will have to do it in parts. I will start with one of the very special highlights while we were home. My sister-in-law held a tea party for all of the girls with not one detail overlooked! She is so talented! Her mother even made little flower arrangement things that the girls could take home (that picture will be coming in a later post). She provided hats and jewelry for the girls to wear and take home and then we had a wonderful meal of egg sandwiches, homemade pettit fours, scones, cucumber sandwiches and all of the fixings for tea. This was served on her grandmother's hand painted rose tea set. I'm not sure who this tea party meant more for, the girls or me, I appreciated how she paid attention to every detail, because I know how much effort goes into it. Thank you so much Meagan for such a wonderful time!!

C after finding a couple of candy filled eggs inside



If you look closely you can see some eggs in the tree, they got very quite creative with the egg hunt in the snow!



I thought you might want to see how L your godson has changed! He is such a big happy baby!



Here he is again, you know me and baby chub, I love it!!





Our P trying on the hats and jewelry




C in her Cinderella dress Grandma gave her















Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Going on a trip!

We are looking forward to our trip home to MN so much!! I will have lots to share when we get back! I am having trouble typing this as A poured bubble solution on the keyboard earlier today, so I will keep it short. Today I had planned to do so many things, and well not much got crossed off the list. It was overall a very unproductive day! I did however take a couple of P for you after our conversation about her today. She sure brings a lot of joy into this household and I hold her and kiss her all throughout the day! You can click on them to see her sweet face closer up!









Sunday, March 16, 2008

New website!!

I have been waiting and waiting to show you the new website! I got the gallery of pictures up and thought I was ready to go when I realized I needed to know some html in order to get the text up! I sometimes feel as if I have lived in a cave and the whole world knows all of these things except for me. I stumbled over every single step in creating this website and it is still not finished! Oh well, it will get done, but I couldn't wait any longer for you to see it, soooo here is the link!

*My favorite gallery is Families, I just love the interactions between family members!

www.marygundrumphotography.com

Make sure you turn up your speakers to hear some beautiful music by Shaun Paul, he is so talented!

Over Easter break I will brush up on basic html and hopefully have it completely done.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

The LAST time..

I am going to tell you about how we were sick for the very last time! I do not believe it would even be possible to get any more illnesses! It was a long and very painful sickness for all of us, there is no way there could be more in store, I cannot even imagine any more. My plans are to never write "we were sick..." ever again on this blog!! That is my plan and I'm sticking to it!

And so as you know, we were sick again. It was over two weeks and it consisted of days of high fever for all of us. No fun, no fun at all. All I could think of while going through it was that at some point I might be a normal mother and do normal things like buy my own groceries and maybe take a walk someday. Pathetic, I know, but remember, we just got through the roto virus and so I literally have not been out of my house much for over a month!

I do have to say, we truly are blessed with the people who came through for us, again!! I never could have imagined the type of support we have. It sure makes things easier for me to know that at any moment I am not alone and I have people who care and want to help. Luonne and Marilyn from the Republican women came and brought us a wonderful meal again, these women are troopers!! Thank you for being there for us! We were blessed by Moira's yummy soup, she really has a knack for being there when there is a need! Our good friend Julia Westphal came and brought an incredible meal! I told you before she is a supermom, well this meal just proved it! WoW! We loved every bite Julia! She also brought some balloons for C's birthday and some beautiful tulips that have cheered me up all week long! Then on to Bridget Fassett from the Republican women brought one of your favorite meals, chicken parmesan. It was wonderful, thank you Bridget!

I would be remiss if I did not make special mention of the people who helped out while I was down with the sickness. Amy, I could not have done it without you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Amy helped take care of the children so I could try and fight off the fever and was here so I could run to the doctors. Laura S, you are an incredible friend. Laura ran out and got me groceries, made soup and took over some of my duties for the school auction. All of the people from school who took over my duties at the auction, especially Mary Cobb and Julie McDevitt. To Julie Swietlik, thank you for the incredible meal and tulips, but most importantly for"being there" for me, you are a true friend! Mary Jo came through again and bought groceries for us when I was in great need, thank you MJ! And last but not least, those wonderful neighbors the Schoepkes came through again for us! They provided us with many comforts as well as necessities all as a gift to us, I cannot thank you enough! There are many times during the day that I think of your kindness to us and feel, well, special!

I am going to post a couple pictures of C's birthday. It was kind of a sad party since no one could come because of the sickness. You can tell she is sick in the pictures. I plan on making it up to her at some point though and when I do I'll take some pic's of that! I couldn't get all of the pictures posted tonight since my camera battery died, the rest will come later.

here she is resting during her "party"



Her sisters visiting with her





She enjoyed the fairy costume she got



Her sisters even made sure she had "stick-on" earrings to make her feel special





those lovely tulips that made me smile all week!